This post is hilariously misleading, don't try to do what he says: It won't work.I "beat" a sociopath before, but I never would have had to if he hadn't become my friend in the first place. Thats just one of the many things she does to try and destroy me so i have to stay on my toes be crafty creative and smarter. They'd hold themselves to a higher standard. I win. While most of the time, they're quite a bother (irritation over the weather and other non-controllable things), sometimes they can be useful, such as when dealing with my boss, she's obviously an empath, and was wary about me at first, until I felt her probing at me for emotional responses, and she tripped my one safeguard. I ended up paying for everything,but let him tell you "i ain't do nothing".i brought heating oil,food,payed thousands of dollars worth of debt. Again,that's vague. There are sociopaths that are intellegent and those that are not. We let her move in with us because of some family crisis she was having at home. )I have also worked with two Female SPATHs. It takes practice ALOT, but after a while you can learn to mimic there ways, and block out emotions when dealing with them. They are hurtful and falsely existing at best, and dangerous in most cases. With enough "noes," even the most persistent sociopath … I don't know if winning or revenge is the right word, but I am finding that my sociopath is riddled with anxiety about seeming normal. Run run run away from YOU!!!!! So by the time we were in our 20's she was quite obvious in many of her tactics because I had denied her useful feedback for 10 -15 years so she didn't use her 'A' game on me and often underestimated others as well believing we were all stupid. Just the most important part. Sociopaths are quite impulsive. Because the only way they learn is through pain. But in the end, they will shoot themselves, failed creatures...all of them. My ex sociopath defininately lacked emotion on many levels, however, the one time I "broke him down" was when I decided it was time for payback... After I found out he had a whole entire relationship with another woman, of course I did the (as u would so eloquently put it) typical "empath" rant trying to appeal to his concsience, cried, yelled, screamed, cursed while he was the one who called me crazy and remained totally aloof as usual. way to beat a sociopath is to kill him/her in his/her sleep. It just makes me realize how weak you are. Your #1 goal is to protect yourself. That's really vague. those 30 thousand plus politicians are no where to be seen or heard.the families of the 911 victims are pointing the finger at the US government for the 911 mass murders. Yeah we sociopaths can be like that if we don't have enough narcissism to hold them back. Wow you have nice little hate fest going on there don't you?Aren't you really just diminishing the worth of people because you don't understand them?See I could have given these mean and nasty(but true) replies but I'm not going to because you are just a pathetic(but amusing) little bug. It doesn’t work the same as our brains. Very bad idea. To realize people like that live among us is a feeling worse than death to someone like me. There have been times I have inadvertently hurt people.I have always felt great remorse to where it actually haunts me. sociopaths will always be sociopaths and thats all, nothing more, they are pathetic excuses for human beings. only in recognising them and avoiding contact or keeping contact to a minimum. The problem with those sources is that they may be have some valid information, but they're about as useful as a book about becoming a millionaire. Our money, time, health and more are beaten down. Next, live your life as is, with happiness. They believe they are but it's really a heartless way of thinking. I would have to agree with the last poster. How to Protect Yourself from a Psychopath. This bullshit's been going on ever since man turned up to be a plight on the universe. They're completely worthless, wastes of lives. First of all, I find it incredibly humorous that there are people on this site claiming to be sociopaths actually giving advice to empaths. I was angry because of her putting me off all the time. I'm no dummy and a giving person by nature and that's all it took. The question seems to infer that being Psychopathic or Sociopathic makes you inherently smart, this is actually BS. I was pushed in to see a psychiatrist by court order, I have since stopped going. Comments are unmoderated. Th... Everyone wants to know how to identify a sociopath, it's one of the most frequently asked questions I get. Now the best absolute way to win is to do good, prosper and try to remain unaffected when the person is tryin to humiliate you upset you embarass you. It all can be used against you If that person does still manage to do get something by you DO NOT SHOW THEM YOU ARE BOTHERED THAT! Practice makes perfect, that's true with anything. Denying them their pleasures in life will pain them, causing them to do something stupid to catch you out. I can write a book about my adventures with my sociopath friend. Wow, The line "My wants and needs didn't matter to her, so she couldn't reference them" really hit me hard. Empaths do terrible things and make wrong decisions all the time. Those that want to beat a sociopath WIN are playing the same game, their just pissed they can't lower themselves or are too scared to go there to beat the socio at their own game. I have lately come to the conclusion that my wife is a sociopath, but very slowly I am taking apart her game. Anything else said here to the contrary is either a sociopath playing games or an empathic person feeling pity for them. This is enhanced when the person is isolated from family and friends. They feed off of your misfortune and they create your misfortune. Of course she won custody. He was my project, I helped him get away from drugs, alcohol, prison life and while he was out on parole I married him to set him right. Comments are unmoderated. She has all these people bamboozled with her lies and manipulation. Then it is hurtful to say I don't talk to my mother or sister & brothers. I have also had to deal with four of his victims. That's my explanation to it. Sad. She was known to pick up the phone extension and listen in on calls (the only family member to do this). They survive because 99% of "empaths" cannot accept what they are. .. Well the answer sure isn't to become one of them! Not an excuse; but worth noting.As to condemning sociopaths for their behavior: I detect hypocrisy. As a result, they often do not hesitate to gossip, slander and will lie without a problem. We must fight fair. Thanks. Otherwise tell it (in a confiding and guilt-tormented way) how you beat someone nearly to death because they lied to you/betrayed you. I got on the web to search for something about "empath, mother/ bipolar son" information. They're sickening to me, drowning in their emotions and trying to pull you under. they are bonded to the hip to the powers that be by their nature. So I do take responsibiltiy as I should have known better n stayed away, however, is it worth me pointing this out? :). Sociopaths are stunted in a developmental stage that most of us grew out of as toddlers. This will do the trick. Thank God I had a real friend to talk me down. While the best way to deal with a sociopath is to avoid them entirely, sometimes circumstance doesn't allow for that. After a year or two, contact the Friends (slowly) that you believe you can trust. Blog owner is not responsible for third party content. That seems to work the most. Maybe some of those methods would work with some empaths looking for some sociopaths some of the time, but there is no surefire method. As you have to have friends/family who trust and side with you like no other. So how about you actually address your own topic and give some real input as to how to beat a sociopath. Everybody around me is a fool, I have no problem with swinging them around. Money and power and cunning can never buy that kind of happiness.You're an empath. I guess my point is: It is hard to outsmart a sociopath, especially if you have had minimal experience with them. My life has been ruined by a sociopath mother; you cannot beat them. I have fantasies of doing drastic things to my sociopath ex...I've had them for 18 years now...they are the only thing that keeps me from completely losing it. Run from these people. Now she tells us what to actually do about it. First of all, some of us know right off the bat that we are dealing with an idiot that has no concern for the consequences of their actions. re: identifying Annunaki bastards - All I know is exactly how it makes me feel when one of them approaches me. Execute us for nothing more than brain chemistry? Sociopaths can be the most distructive people on earth. Exposing them just makes them create new webs of lies which entangle you more and more. I have tried everything to get him out of my life. Need to feel a little power and in control? This comment has been removed by the author. Divorce them, fire them, toss them out of friendship, jail them, report them, call them out and don't play their games! To this day she can manipulate me and uses other people to send message to me because I have tried to get her out of my life. Interesting web site. I guess the question of "beating" a socio is a question of goals. I never fell in love with him after the truth. The hardest part of this deception was trying to express interest and views I did not really have because I had no practice. this is all a joke...you cannot beat a sociopath DUH!!! She promised to move 1000 miles to be here with me. Need to feel a little power and in control? They often lack empathy although they are usually very good a ... Sociopaths by definition have underdeveloped superegos or more simply, no conscience. Granted,they often are very intelligent as they do not struggle with strong moral conscience, emotions or remorse. I'm sure feelings for her are still there.I suppose even sociopaths don't all fit one mold. Resist the temptation to compete with a seductive sociopath, to outsmart him, psychoanalyze, or even banter with him. At the very least, that’s a good start. Didn't go so well, I just went through a 3yr marraige with a sciopath and believe me she was the most dangerious person ive ever had as apart of my life she was relenties on destorying me she didnt like that i was descent she hated when other though me nice and when i tired to be good to her and love her she used me and cheated and lied to me everyday she loved when i get upset it made her happy please do yourself a favor leave them alone for your own safty. We may have early developmental issues mimicking emotions, but at least for high functioners, we're much better at recognizing lies due to an advantage of sheer amount of time spent practicing. They hate alienation...that's the best revenge :). Not gone completely, but very subtle, and easy to miss if I'm not looking for them. You didn't say before because you didn't know them well enough to trust them. Yet, I have decided to free my life from her presence. So what do you recommend they do, then? It's all a game to them. I just want to say I have spent a good portion of my life trying to please, serve and read their next move. I thought "Is this really what it feels like in his skin?" I know I wouldn't feel better afterwards either. I guess the answer is to do what they do, and use the best of them and try to deflect the worst. Totally agree!But when you have children with these people, its a big process you have to help them go through! Remember the opposite of love is not hate it indifference.Actually, now that I think about it no one really wins because they too spend their time and energy on you. And unless you want to get read of that and become like one of them you wont be as successful at these games as they are and why would you want to? ?.......that, to me, seems incredibly pompous and self-serving..which makes you better than us how exactly?.The irony is..unless one of us slips and drops the mask..youd never know what we are.......the bigger irony is that your statements put into "sociopathic context"...could have well been authored by an adept sociopath just to throw people off the scent.. scarey huh??. Be very careful before you sign yourself up to the "Intention Judges" bandwagon!. Got human services involved and is claiming to be the victim. Perhaps you want revenge though. But that would be a first. How to beat a sociopath? I became fast friends with one for about six months. Put us all on an island? Then dump the loser for good.....*** FFS!..why do you all seem to think we are of limited intelligence? This will do the trick. That means and 1 in 25 people you come across could be a sociopath!Your mother could be one, your boss,perhaps your babysitter or even your best friend!They are just like you and I except they do not have a conscience to speak of - no biggie, just means that if one gets it's hooks into you, at the very least you will be brain raped. I think so. Would a sociopath know that the empath was faking? I get the same feeling sometimes but in a whole different way. When you, as a non-sociopath, do such things, is it "right"? It was like watching a cartoon where a snake is hypnotizing a helpless little rodent, only this snake said the stupidest things and really they all do. Knowing that he couldn't break me without disfiguring me, he cowarded like I had never seen before. Well I know I would but I don't know about him. My best friend is an extreme empath and I am a touch sociopathic (I refuse to actually label it without a professional diagnosis) and we use each other. It's been 5 years now of this and now I think I am getting immune to it. ...And yet they prefer to believe the media and the story-cookers. She was afraid of MY anger. I know that my feelings are distorting reality and the only sober thought in my mind is to run and never look back. In addition to reducing Man, he really knows how to play me. You don't even know your doing it I bet, but you compare yourself to something better than empaths, than those that have complete and perfect wiring in our brains. Yes, you must cover you back at all times and be aware you are being hunted. She wanted the 'good room' and I wanted the 'bad room' so what was the problem? And beleive me, a true sociopath, makes it their ultimate goal. Find their weak spots. He's tried loads of different strategies. If you have something she envy's or wants, you will be targeted. I came to this site believing that sociopaths were misunderstood sufferers who society should adapt to integrate better. 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